DS is 16, came home from college Friday (last day before 2 wks Easter hols) saying some mates planning camping trip. Turns out, the venue is private woodland which specifically says no camping or overnight stays, and I was initially reluctant to let him go as there has been trouble there before. Mentioned to DH, he said DS said nothing to him and wait until he does. DS asked me today, if I can drop him near venue tomorrow on way to work ... I replied, you know its not legal to camp there (TBH I am prepared to let him try and if there is trouble, then not down to me being over-protective mummy ;) - he wants to be Mr Grownup so has to deal with consequences ). DS replied "Well I won't go then" I looked to DH to take up the challenge and talk to him, and he replied "If he has decided not to go, then thats solved the problem" and walked away ... It hasn't solved anything! DH failed to engage with the issue, DS online telling his mates he cannot come because mum won't let him (deep down I wonder if he really wanted to go anyway as didn't put up much of an argument), and I am left feeling like nothing been resolved and I am the bad guy here.
As I said, I was willing to let him go, take the rap if anything went wrong and deal with consequences, and DH has walked away blame free, with DS telling everyone I am an ar$ehole in not letting him go ... :( . Any advice much appreciated.
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Camping trip not what I thought, DH not backing me :(
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LeanneA · 02/04/2017 14:05
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