I left my violent husband the day before he started comprehensive school. After fighting to get my son out of the squallid conditions he was living in, i finally found a home for both of us a year later.
He was like a duck to water and 'appeared ' to be unfazed by what had happened. He blossomed at school despite wanting to change because there were never regular teachers.
However he had lost touch with the oong term friends during the time with his father, though he did socialiee at his new school.
As he was due to start year 9 we moved 141miles away to live with my new partner. It was a very quick relationship. The decision was entirely his. My partner had approached about it and wanted to ask my son before he asked me.
He believes my partner is great for me, but he expected a 'better' life for us all.
Now His grades at school are dropping, he never becomes involved in, doing anything or with our new family, he does nothing but sit on pc, so I asked him what is going on.
He has informed me he hates it here, hates his new school and he want it to just be him and I again.
He loves his new family and we do try activities but once I saw his grades had dropped I truly realised I need to be more concerned. Not that I wasn't but I felt that I needed to give him time as we only moved here in September.. I also thought wait for better weather, we have a lot more fun when it's not cold, though my new partner and his girls are off 'mudding it' every weekend.
I'm heartbroken to see him like this but I also feel that he could be doing more. I now have him starting a couple of clubs because he doesn't like any of the kids at his school.
He is a very bright and interesting boy but finds no one on his level.
What more can I do?
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Moved area and my 14 yo son is terribly unhappy
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user1485974254 · 01/02/2017 19:00
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