Bit of an odd situation. We travel from country to country as a family of 4. My son has been doing this since he was 2 1/2. He is now 14. In our last posting abroad, he fell in love. He was always active & sociable before but since being with her he has changed. He doesn't interact with us like he used to and I find it's difficult to talk about his life. I understand it's part of him growing up but it's concerning. We have since moved countries again, meaning their relationship has become long distance. I was hoping it would phase out but actually I feel things have got worse. They now spend a lot of time together on social media/Xbox. Although he has made good friends here, he seems to choose her over them. He is a great kid & caring but I feel she is abusing this. She constantly tells him she is being bullied by her parents& school friends. She is always telling him she is ill. Tonight has really pushed us to the brink of dispair. She told him she is self harming. My sons reaction was to immediately tell her parents, which he did. I'm happy he made this choice. But now it's worrying me that he is only staying in this relationship in the fear that she will harm herself if he dares to call it a day. They are both 14. I think this is too much for him to handle but I don't know what to do. Can anyone give me some guidance? X
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