Devastated doesn't even come close. Today I received the text message (yes text message!!!) no mother would ever want to receive. My daughter text me telling me she needed to tell my something. I replied "you're not pregnant are you" in to which I got a response of "mum don't hate me". I just knew what I was about to hear, but still didn't want to hear it.
My heart sank. I will never hate my daughter. She is in a stable relationship and has been with her bf for 2 years. He is 18 almost 19. DD is 17 next march.
I spoke to her tonight and we both was in floods of tears but she told me she wants to go ahead with keeping the baby, and as soon as I said an abortion was an option she looked at me in disgust. I will support her either way. I am just so heart broken and do not want her life to be ruined, I am so sad for them both. I just expected more from them and the last I knew she was on the pill. I am so disappointed in them, as they both have amazing career paths they want to follow. I am terrified of their plans ruining, which they must likely will. Not just that, but I don't know how they are going to cope financially and don't feel they are ready to have baby
Sorry for blabbing on, there is so much I could ask and I am feeling so much different emotions. I am completely lost and can not get any sleep. Has anyone else been in a similar situation? Pls tell me there is light at the end of this tunnel
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hartleymummy · 12/10/2016 02:07
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