My DD(15) has a newish friend - has some 'issues' and also thinks they are transgender - mum wasn't supportive and now apparently is ... dad lives 100s of miles away ...I have never really spoken to the mum, never even seen the dad. I have no contact details for the mum.
I do know they have had turbulent friendships in the past - always surrounded by drama... and I think they are slightly controlling too.
DD has taken to visiting a lot- staying over at weekends etc (they live over 10 miles away and it isn't easy to get to their house from here. )
I was out with DD2 when I got a phone call - an emergency -you have to come home now.
When I got home DD1 said I had to take her to pick up another friend and then take them to the place 'new' friend lives. New friend is in the woods and going to hang themselves.
I said they needed to speak to their friend's mum - she said they can't get in touch with her. I said then we needed to phone the police - no that can't happen. I said I wanted to speak to new friend - nope it is nothing to do with me.
I have refused to take DD - said her friend needed professional help. DD is furious with me and said if her friend dies it is my fault. I am not sure if she will forgive me for not taking her.
I do vaguely know mum of other friend - they have apparently refused to take them too.
Not sure whether to contact the police (although I have no idea where the friend is) and not sure what their address is - I know what their house looks like ...
Don't want to lose the trust of my DD over this - but then I really don't think I should take her... Not sure how serious this threat is but then don't want DD to be in the situation where she is expected to 'keep' her friend alive...
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unlucky83 · 03/10/2016 19:55
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