My 13yo DD has anxiety attacks, not yet with CAMHS or diagnosed but can be pretty bad. The XH says it's just attention seeking behaviour and she needs to snap out of it/ pull herself together / consider other people. He can be quite aggressive. Last year I put a stop to her sleeping over at his house because she would be calling me in the night upset and crying. Now he's booked a weekend away with her, my 16yo dd and his wife, to go camping. My 13yo is continually coming to me in tears saying she doesn't want to go. I know the XH will be angry and upset if she doesn't go. Should I fight the battle with him or make her go? If this kicks off I feel strongly he will take it personally as if we are all 'ganging up' on him, and I've poisoned them against him. It might permanently damage their relationship. I've explained this to dd and she said she's not bothered. The holiday is booked and paid for. Also, he pays maintenance at the moment which he would not hesitate to stop, putting us in a very difficult situation.
Any advice would be very welcome.
Thank you.
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ElleEmJay · 07/08/2016 02:11
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