Big argument last night with DS (15 next month and in yr 10 at school) about bed time.
Rule: phone downstairs to charge overnight at 10,30pm and lights off as soon as possible after that. This becomes close to 11pm as of course he takes his time to use the toilet, brush teeth, grab some food from the fridge last minute, you get the picture.
Well apparently no 15 year olds have a bedtime anymore, they are left to their own devices, they go to sleep whenever and are trusted by their parents to regulate their sleep pattern. I am completely unreasonable by expecting him to follow above rule and I should trust him and respect him as an adult.
I feel crap today as of course other parents that are so cool have been mentioned (by name, so and so's mum will not do that to Jonny) and I am wondering if I am too strict.
Please help me see the light, do your similar age DCs have a bedtime or can they regulate their own sleep patterns and still function normally?
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Fleurdelise · 22/06/2016 10:50
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