I'm not getting at anyone here I promise, but I frequently read advice along the lines of 'if your DC doesn't xyz then it's time they found somewhere else to live.' It's sometimes expressed more forcefully 'my house, my rules and if they don't like it they can go and live somewhere else.' I kind of agree with this and I can certainly see a time when I will want to say this to my DCs but in reality, how do you make them? If they are out of work or in low paid work or education where do they go? If you actually kick them out after 18 is there any help out there? After all, we're not talking about well adjusted, high achieving youngsters; nobody needs them to leave home. We're talking about the ones who are already struggling to function. Does anyone house homeless under 25s and if so, do they just end up in hostels or B&Bs where they may well meet people who could have an even worse influence on them? This is a genuine question. I would happily boot my DCs out if I thought they would get jobs, rent flats and be happy, but if they could do that then they wouldn't be driving me up the wall to the point where I want them to leave. Actually mine aren't too bad at the minute but they have been and I want to be prepared if things get worse again! Has anyone actually given the ultimatum and then seen it through?
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Clare1971 · 11/03/2016 16:04
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