Ds worked up until now on his gap year and had planned to go to India ,Thailand .
His friend has now backed down saying that he wants to stay in Europe and only go for a couple of weeks .
He has asked other pals but they don't have the money as this is new idea to them .
My ds is really disappointed but won't discuss options with us .
His friend wants to go to Norway which is very expensive so they will get less time for their money there , although it looks wonderful .my ds had planned to save some money to see if when he gets to uni there are others he can travel with then in holidays .
I'm wondering if there are any travel companies that support people to travel alone .whilst he says he's fine he lacks confidence whilst also being frustrated .
He has books about vol work etc he just says he will go with his pal for two weeks .he is spending most days in the house now doing nothing s he wants to keep hold of his cash .
He is I must admit driving me mad as he is clearly lonely but won't do anything about it and it seems such a waste of a gap year .
The deal for the gap year was some work , some travel some chill time .the chill time is too much now ! Any ideas .? In the day I ask him to walk the dog or do a house job but other than that he does very little and I know that he is frustrated but won't actually do anything about it !
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ginorwine · 16/02/2016 08:58
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