Ds2 is 19. Over the past year he was seeing a girl aged 17 in same year as Dd. Throughout relationship she was very needy and manipulative and treated Ds2 badly, constantly calling him in middle of night demanding he pick her up from somewhere or come and see her immediately. She also cheated on him and generally made him unhappy but he stayed with her. In summer Dd was at same party as gf and saw that gf was getting with other boy. She told Ds2 who said another friend had already told him but as it was middle of gfs gcses he wasn't going to do anything about it. Gf found our dd had caught her out and then started massive hate campaign against Dd, basically making her whole summer a misery. Ds still stayed with gf causing many family arguments. We were relieved when they finally broke up and ds went to uni in October. Unfortunately things didn't work out and he's dropped out and is now back home - within two weeks he was seeing gf again! We're now in an intolerable situation, dd won't speak to ds and I can see her point - even I feels betrayed that ds would go back to someone who has caused so much trouble in our family. I've asked him not to bring her to our house but the tension is awful whenever he comes home having seen her. Ds has today admitted that gf is 'a bit psycho' and when he's asked her why she did what she did to dd she can't come up with anything! He says despite this he loves her and that we should be thinking how all this makes him feel! What should I do? Do I invite her back round even though this will upset dd and cause ww3 or ban her and upset ds? I'm erring on side of dd, it's so hard. Gf continues to taunt dd at every opportunity, sending messages about how much ds loves her etc
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lustysandra ·
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