hi
I have started reading post on here after finding out in Feb that my DD14 was self harming , and have looked up and researched SH as much as I possible can to try to understand .
As many of you will understand I was absolutely devastated when I found this out ,having two other older teenagers with no problems it was a huge shock as she did not seem the type .( if there is a type? eg depressed ,just a normal moody teenager or so I thought)
my DH just likes to stick his head in the sand and hopes it will go away.( like many men do) and is not much support.
her selfharm consists of cutting her arms and legs , she has also told cmahs that she often thinks about not being here and taking pills ,( pills are now locked away in the safe)
have been seeing cmahs since Aug ,first primary cmahs for 3-4 weeks but quickly referred to long term cmahs. just had our 3 meeting today and have now been recommended that she sees a psychiatrist and if agreed to put her on medication .
This scares me ,I know medication maybe the answer but I just feel scared it will make her fell worse.
I just want her to feel better about herself, I would do anything to help her and I am upset as I am writing this even 10 months on I am still finding it hard .
she is such a beautiful girl and is always making sure that she looks good when she goes out and to school.
I have trouble understanding that she wants to look good and her make up and hair is done but her arms and legs are such a mess, she seems to block her scars and cuts out.
please anybody with experience for teenages on medication , I know I will have to watch her closely and it will take weeks to take affect .
she is not a great talker so cmahs think that this is the next step and may make her open up abit.
I just hope I am doing the right thing? I'm so scared for her.
please tell me that there is light at the end of the tunnel , even a really long tunnel
thanks for reading ,sorry it's so long.
xxxx
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am I doing the right thing for selfharm dd14
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Florida41 · 18/11/2015 15:20
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