I have a (just turned) 14 year old.
We live on the Isle of Wight. At the moment she has (I think anyway) a fair amount of freedom. She gets on the bus and toodles about all over the Island
She now wants to go shopping in Southampton with her friends - we have rubbish shops, she wants the bright lights of Primark.
I'm really not comfortable with this. It feels too far away, although distance-wise it's not really any further away than if she was the other side of the Island.
I quite happy with her doing her own thing over here, if anything goes tits up we're never that far away from her, but if anything was to go wrong in Southampton it'll take a while for us to get over to her, what if the weather turns and the boats are cancelled/what if she gets lost/has an accident/all sorts of unlikely what ifs?
I did consider offering to go over with them, do my own thing for the day, and then meeting up with them at home time, but I think in DD's eyes this would be worse than not going at all.
I really don't know, that little strip of water feels huge right now, and obviously, all the others are allowed to go
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14 year olds - how far are you happy to let them go on their own?
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Shamalamalam · 30/10/2015 10:18
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