Hi,
Is anyone else struggling with morale at the end of the school term? My ds is 13 and he has no end of 'school friend' problems, he's a kind and friendly boy but seems to have friends who ditch him at seemingly nothing and others that mess with his head. He doesn't find it really easy to make friends, so he seems to stick with the ones he's had since he was little even though they seem to treat him badly sometimes, although he has others since he started secondary school, but many of the friendships seem intertwined. He went into yr 9 last week and since then everything seems to have been turned upside down. My dd also started secondary school last week, so its been a big upheaval. I thought it was a good idea for the schools to start their new school year before the end of term, but now on reflection everyone seems tired, and its hard to cope with when you feel that way.
I have recently given up my job due to anxiety and stress and although I'm more or less back on track, I feel this last few weeks have been very challenging. Because my kids are getting upset about various issues, it has an effect. This will be my first six week holiday with them for 5 years, as I only had a few weeks off in the summer previously due to work, and I want it to be perfect, but I am worried that these friend issues will effect their holidays and I'll spend the whole time worrying for them. I thought I'd come on here and see if anyone else has some is feeling anything similar. I'm trying to stay positive but deep down I just feel like gathering them both up and getting away when they break up on Thursday. Any advise would be well received.
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whimsyowl · 20/07/2015 11:18
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