Sooo, college is over and the long summer has started! Whilst DD was at college we had a few rules in place about weeknight coming home time and bf staying ( or her at bf's) at weekends only. They seem to think it is now fine to stay at one house or the other every night, which isn't an issue (except this last week they only stayed here twice, which i dont think is fair on his parents). They can be a bit cheeky and seem to find out what dinner is on offer, roll up for dinner then go back to his! Before we start to get treated like a hotel and run into bigger problems i wonder if i need to implement a few general rules. Would it b unreasonable to want to know a day in advance if they are eating with us so i can make enough? If they don't let me know they could sort themselves out some pasta or something?
i am reading the 'get out of my life' book as we have had a few 'issues', which are probably mainly me! Dd is an only child, probably a bit spoilt and i am having a few issues accepting her being almost a grown up!
I look back and realise I have probably been overprotective and controlling, and want to try to maintain a good relationship with her, but without her taking advantage.
How does everyone else deal with having a post college aged person living at home?
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Whatdoidonow96 · 03/07/2015 14:19
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