Just really getting pissed off now with my 18 year old. I know they are selfish and thoughtless at this age (and in the run up). I know its par for the course yadder yadder but FFS do I really have no choices anymore but to accept it? I feel so powerless and like I just have to put up with being made to feel like a fecking doormat as it's normal teenage behaviour!!
To be specific, she has a new (2 month) relationship and they live in each others pockets. I have not seen her alone for weeks now, they turn up here unannounced which makes me feel uncomfortable as Im sitting here my PJ's or in fact breastfeeding the LO when they just roll up, straight into the kitchen making tea/toast and a mess the just disappear into her room only to surface for more tea etc before leaving after a few day (2 or 3) to repeat the process at his house before, I assume outstaying their welcome there and so it continues!! I feel awkward in my own home, like I have to get dressed at all times incase they roll in or on the rare occasion she actually comes home alone he turns up a few hours later again, uninvited so Im forever on edge.
I mean dont get me wrong, I dont mind him staying over a few nights a week, but it would just be nice to be asked! And to have a heads up so I can be prepared etc..I would like them to wash up there own mugs, not use the last piece of bread and at least acknowledge me! I feel like Im running a B&B but without the extra £!!
My Daughter hardly speaks to me anymore unless she wants a lift/some washing/ironing/insert favour of choice here.
Im finding it really hurtful and feel taken advantage of. Am I being a complete mug and should I put my foot down/tryharder to enforce a few ground rules or am being silly, if this is just normal teen behaviour please?
Hopefully someone will have persevered through my long and probably dull post to maybe offer me a bit of a shove in either direction. Sorry, I realise I probably sound pathetic, I crap with teenagers!
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shanelle5 · 14/03/2014 20:44
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