We have a child living with us that is not 'ours', part of our wider family.
His grandmother has just emailed me to say she thinks he feels like an outsider in our family and that it makes her sad. I just feel under such huge emotional pressure, I try very hard to make him feel welcome although his behaviour is often very challenging, like many teens. He is doing really well at school and has lots of hobbies. He has an underlying sadness which is understandable really, these is a lot of stuff he will have to deal with at some point. I have to email her back but I'm just filling up with anger, it's not my fault, he would be much less unhappy if he'd been given counselling back when he would have been more receptive to it (he wouldn't consider it now). I don't think this is anything he has told her, just how she perceives it.
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conclusionjumper · 08/03/2014 12:53
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