Hi, I am new to this but I am tearing my hair out over my 16 year old. She met a lad last year when she was 15, she went to a friends mothers house 100 miles away with her friend, while there she met this lad who was 16 and they had sexual contact, I was very upset when I found out. she stopped contacting him then just after she turned 16 she told me they were having a relationship. I contacted his mother who thinks it is perfectly acceptable for her son to have had sex with an under aged girl. I have allowed him to visit to try and get to know him, trouble is I can't bear to be near him. This has driven a huge wedge between us, when previously we had been so close. I have agreed for her to visit him at new year, about 250 miles away, against my better judgement. She informed me this morning that she wants to end her education here and move in with his family to continue her education with him. I am horrified, I have talked to her saying it is better to finish her education first (she has to stay in ed/training until 18 due to government changes) then if the relationship is still going then she will be old enough to make such choices. I have said they could see each other during collage holidays, this to her mind is not good enough and I am terrified she will run away to be with him. What can I do, I know I am probably being overprotective but I don't trust him and I certainly do not trust his mother to keep her safe. His mother has basically told me to mind my own business, which is easy for her as it is not her daughter. This makes me question her morals. Please help. I have hardly slept for months because of this.
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