Hubby just been in 16 year olds room (unbeknownst to me) as we have NO little side plates left in the cupboard. she has a history of secreting pots in her room (despite our asking all 3 girls not to eat in rooms..she ignores us and I have let it go) He called me in and lying on her floor, where he had put them after finding them in her drawers , was an empty bottle of Tanglefoot beer and a half full bottle of Schnapps. She has got them from our cellar obviously (no, we aren't mega rich, just live in Victorian house with cellar!) Am devastated, never even occurred to me that she would help herself. Her two elder sisters never did, but she is a different kettle of fish, and always has been. Not much respect, does what she wants. she is 16, and at work at moment ...I have sent her a photo of what we have found so she can brick it all afternoon.
PLEASE, can someone tell me what I can do? Yes, buy yet another lock (had to buy one for elder sisters room as she kept nicking clothes) for the cellar (which she will pay for) but what else? What would you do? Don't know why she is like this....arsey, spends a lot of time in room on I pad etc, disrespectful, very violent tempered...
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Alcohol found in teenagers room..help!
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febel · 20/10/2013 14:21
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