Ds1 (almost 16) is pretty good - responsible, funny, happy etc. We have occasional ups and downs, but we have a tremendous bank of goodwill between us to see us through the rough patches. he's quiet, reserved, but with lots of friends. He's a self confessed slight geek - has built his own computer etc..
Aanyways - every now and then, he and a circle of mates spend the night at someones house having a LAN party (local area network) with their computers. This weekend, it was the turn of one of his mates - I dropped him off sleeping bag in tow, and hoiking bits of his recently assembled computer....
Am working the next day, but on a late shift. Arrangement was that ex-dh (who I get on well with), would pick him up next morning from his mates, and drop computer off at mine at around 11, and also to pick up his fathers day present, then would go back to his house with children.
Cue 11am - Ds1 shoots through the front door like a greyhound out of a trap, and starts honking in the downstairs toilet. Ex-dh follows, wearily carrying a kitchen bowl. ds1 emerges and starts to cry saying "I'm sorry mum - please don't have a go - I feel really bad - I had four shots of vodka, and have been puking since 2am"
"ah!" I say - taken aback. he's had the odd glass of wine at Christmas with a meal, but this is the first time he's had free rein with alcohol at a party with his mates - I didn't know there was going to be alcohol, and neither did he.
He's normally very sensible, and I remember doing the same thing at his age
He's fine now, and we've had a long talk- he's my first teenager, and am a bit at sea - is this 'normal'? how did you deal with it?
please don't flame me..
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pixwix · 16/06/2013 23:16
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