My dd is in year 7. I'm so proud of her and how she's really done so well settling in,joining clubs,teams,working hard,making friends..........or so it seems until recently she's been a bit down and last night and tonight had an emotional melt down about a couple of " friends" in her group blanking her, making bitchy comments about doing well etc.
she's a friendly,happy girl and I've always encouraged her to have lots of friends but she is feeling left out, that they are not inviting her to weekend things and, as they do, talking about heir plans infront of her.
She had her 7 friends for a sleepover a couple of weeks ago and they all got on well and seemed to have a great time.
She doesn't want to talk to any of them because she thinks they will take the mickey out of her for being a drama queen and she doesn't want them to invite her because they feel sorry for her....but if she doesn't say anything she won't solve the problem.
She says she can't just "find new friends" because groups have been formed etc.
I've said she should organise a meet up in town or at the cinema but she's scared Incase none of them want to go.
I feel as if my sunny,happy, gregarious dd is retreating into herself and going to become a sad solitary child.
How can I help her?
Will it just blow over?
Am I being over sensitive and should just get a thicker skin?
I could do with some advice please.
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Drywhiteplease · 05/06/2013 23:08
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