Hi, this is my first post, please be kind! My ds will be 20 in August and he's never held a job for more than 3 months. He got good A Levels at college, started at university, decided it wasn't for him after a couple of terms, which was fine, even though it left us short of money. He's had a couple of part time jobs, but got bored, started turning up late, being arsy and was soon let go.
All he does now is lie in bed all day, drink too much and eat takeaway provided by his girlfriend. He contributes nothing financially, won't do anything in the house to help and regards me and his dad with contempt. My dh wanted to chuck him out and I'm beginning to agree with him.
Ds says he's applying for jobs but there have been no interviews and sometimes he won't get out of bed to sign on. I arranged a docs appointment and he was prescribed ADs but he wont take them and he won't do anything about seeing a counsellor.
I've really had enough, my health isn't great and I'm sick of trying to help someone who won't be helped.
Any advice anyone?
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