Well strictly speaking, dd1 is not a teenager yet, as she is 12, but she IS behaving exactly like one, and I am at a total loss as to what to do with her.
Areas of particular interest would be:
Technology and its use, ipads, phones: do you regulate how much/when? What rules do you adopt in your house?
Siblings: she can be totally horrid to her sister (8 1/2), whi in turn ca be a bit of a drama queen, I really do not know how to help them get on better.
Family time: she's got into a habit of going to her room as soon as she gets home supposedly to do her homework. I know she also chats with her friends of course. Nothing wrong with that, but we only ever see her at mealtimes, do people just let their teenagers do what they want or do you expect them to spend some time with the rest of the family too?
I had quite a strict upbringing and I still remember the resentment I felt towards my aprents, at the same time I do not want to be dd1's best friend, as I think that's wrong too. Dh is extremely laissez-faire as that's how his parents were with him.
in a nusthell, what areas do you leave them complete freedom in, where do you regulate more?
thanks so much!
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