I have two children at University and a ten year old at home. I have been at home for twenty years now. And I feel like a dinosaur. Children are now like little Gods. Everything pivots around them. They can never quite be left alone from the prodding and prying of over ambitious parents. I have noticed the inexorable change. There is no room for them to just breathe and feel good under their skin. Every weekend is dominated by the royal timetable of ACTIVITIES. My mother had four children and we just mucked about in the garden. Parents are now glorified butlers and chauffeurs.It seems quite mad that a family cannot just quietly get on with their own thing. Children have to be endlessly challenged and measured and stretched like an elastic bands against an ever lengthening ruler. I remember the excitement of christmas parties where adults danced and drank and laughed and we were happily ignored as we watched them enjoy themselves. It was nice to just be there and rush around with other happily ignored kids. Now there is no such thing.I love children but not ALL the time. Now all get togethers are dominated by precious kids showing off. I think it was nice to be included in the adult world sometimes. Now it seems everyone wants to be children. In the end the children grow into teenagers who have to acclimatize to the fact not everyone will want to clap and weep at their every move. They will have to muck in and play their part and come to terms with the fact that they are not the centre of the universe after all....however much they have been to us.
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