He came home from school today with his arm in a sling.
Apparently he was pushed over by another boy yesterday lunchtime. He said he had slightly grazed knees but his arm only hurt a bit at the time, so he didn't tell anyone. He also didn't tell me last night, btw.
But he said when he got into his first class today his arm seized up and he couldn't move his hand to hold a pen. He went to the sick room, told the nurse about being pushed over yesterday, and she bandaged it up. She told him that if it still hurt by the end of the day then his parents should take him to A&E for an xray. He was sent back to class and spent the rest of the day not using his arm.
So when he got home and told me, we went to A&E. Good news is it's not broken, only bruised. But I feel so angry, firstly that the school didn't phone me to let me know about his arm today, and didn't get me to collect him early.
Secondly Im freaking out about the 'pushing over' incident. He says it was somebody he doesn't know who is apparently a bit of an idiot, who does that kind of thing. He says the kid pushed into a few people, not just him, and he has never picked on him before so I shouldn't worry as its not bullying.
But I am worried now that he's covering up something more sinister. I am going to go into the school tomorrow morning to talk to the head of year about what happened. But I know that I will probably come across as a paranoid mother (which I am). But am I right in thinking the school should have contacted me? And surely they should be looking into who pushed someone over so hard they ended up in A&E.
Would be grateful for other people's opinions please - thanks!
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MooMooFarm · 11/11/2010 20:48
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