Need advice on what the men wear at weddings

[LittlePickleHead]

So I've left this all quite late...getting married in 4 weeks. It's not very formal and DP and the ushers are wearing their own suits, we've said grey to them to keep some kind of uniformity but they will be different shades and styles.

Just wanted to gauge opinions - does the groom wear the same tie and buttonhold as the ushers, or should he be different? If there is a difference, what is it? Thining of coral pink ties and white buttonholes. We haven't bought any ties yet but going to try and get some online. It's just occured to me perhaps the groom needs to stand out a bit? But how? Help!

[iskra]

I think that normally they all wear the same ties, & the groom has a bigger buttonhole.

However when we got married DP wore his kilt & had no groomsmen, so I am probably not a reliable witness.

[LittlePickleHead]

That sounds easier to sort out, thanks we'll do that!