My DH recently bought a motorbike. He passed his test years ago, but we could never afford one before. I have no problem with it, and am quite looking forward to going out on the back.
Anyway, he has now been talking about taking his DS (my DSS) for a ride on the back of it. Apparently it's legal if the child can reach the foot support things. However, DSS is only 7.
I feel really uncomfortable about it. His Mum would go mental (DSS's Mum, obviously, not DH's)but then she goes mental when we let DS do all kinds of normal things like ride a bike or go on a trampoline or sleep out in the tent in the back garden (accompanied by his Dad).
DSS is also not terribly well co-ordinated and I'm not sure he can be trusted to hold on for any length of time.
DH points out that I'm quite happy for DD to have a go (but she's 15) and that my Dad used to take me to primary school on the fuel tank of his bike.
We've agreed to talk about it again when DH feels confident enough to have a passenger. I would genuinely like some other people's perspective on this as I'm not sure how strongly to object, after all, I'm only the SM here.
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My DH wants to take DSS out on his new motorbike
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mmrred · 27/09/2009 18:06
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