My stepkids visit us fairly regularly, which I don't mind. However, teenage stepchild (17) has just got a work experience for the summer and my husband wants him to live with us. Mum doesn't live much further from the job. I never signed up for 24/7 living with his kids other than for school hols and weekends. I made this clear before we got married. There's a bond between them that I am not part of. Plus, I don't have much in common with my stepkids. They're nice enough, but I just don't want to live with them for extended periods. I feel nasty for expressing this feeling, but at the same time I don't want to be unhappy. Anyone else feel this way?
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Feel like odd (wo)man out when stepkids here
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Stepmaman · 01/06/2005 18:31
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