Started a thread 6 mths ago saying how happy I was that DP & his DD were moving in....well, they moved in but by Xmas, DSD left to live with her mum. DP had custody (undisputed) for 3 yrs prior to moving in with me - then suddenly his exW wanted her back.
She made life here very hard and in the end we had to let her go to live with her mum.
It was probably because her mum has no boundaries, lavishes DSD with clothes & things, lets her stay up late & now every time she returns from a weekend in with us, her mum is straight on the phone txting DP - usually something vile about me.
DP has started hiding texts from her or lying "to protect me" but having been a cuckholded wife via text, I hate mobiles and find trusting him hard while he is lying about what she is saying.
It frustrates me that while he is happy to discipline my 2 (and so am I) he is clearly not man enough to stand up to either his DD or his ex.
It's just miserable. I am scared to say anything to DSD when she is here, as she just sulks & then reports back to her mum.
He is now talking about not seeing his DD anymore cos she is lying about us but that is not what I want, especially as he will end up regretting that & resenting me.
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DSD playing parents off against each other & I am caught in the middle
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mistressmiggins · 23/02/2009 12:35
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