hello i am new on here so please bear with me as i'm not sure of the lingo! I have a 4 and half yr old son from a previous relationship (doomed from the start). I havent been with his father since he was 6 months old and was lucky enough to meet my now husband and we got married in Nov 04 (sorry for the life history!) Anyway a couple of weeks ago my son asked about having 2 dads? in a round about way we talked about him having a 'real' dad and a 'step' dad, he does still has bi weekly contact with his 'real' dad. He asked me if he could call my husband 'daddy' i said that if he wanted to he could and left it at that. My husband is posted away with the armed forces until August so has no idea about whats happening here in his absence. My problem is that my ex has been on the phone tonight saying that he is not happy about our son calling my husband dad,(he spent sat night with his real dad and must have mentioned it) he thinks i should have discouraged him from the idea after all he is only 'the man i married' and that he only has 1 dad.... i am in turmoil because as usual with him i am not doing things right by his son, i did say that i could understand him being upset but if its what our son wanted then i wasnt going to discourage him after all my husband spends lots of time with him working a their relationship doing boys things etc, he loves him as if he was his own - please help am i going mad??
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