Name changed for this post, just after some perspective really, teenage DSD has many issues, depression, anxiety, social issues and I'm not sure the root cause as I've not been on the scene long enough to know the background and I'm always accommodating and try and help her if I see her struggle in a situation as she is a lovely girl, however I feel drained whenever she comes to stay as there is always something wrong with her from the minute she arrives, sore knee, sore back, sore finger, sore leg, sore toe etc etc but it's so dramatic like if she has a sore finger she claims oh it's probably dislocated or a sore stomach - some kind of disease. Everything is just so dramatic and negative like if we watch tv and someone has an issue she will chip in with oh you think you have issues try being ... ( insert whatever the scenario is - socially awkward, have head issues have extreme anxiety) everything is focussed around these issues, I know her mum has very similar issues and it's quite obvious she has inherited traits from her with oh I can't work or do this or do that because of all my many issues " poor me party" just after how to deal with it as you say oh are you enjoying your drink for example she will reply my back hurts and because you've heard it 99 times this hour you ignore it and she continues to repeat it until you acknowledge it! Please help it's driving me bonkers !!
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penguinparty00 · 12/04/2021 08:25
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