I am having a bit of trouble with the Mum of my DSD, who is 8. Nothing major, but she has decided that she doesn't like me, and is making this clear to DSD.
My question is, as a Mum, would you appreciate it if your ex's partner approached you so you could chat about issues and try to establish an amicable relationship? I have told my DP that I would be willing to have coffee with his DD's Mum so that we can get to know each other and she can talk to me about insecurities or other issues that she feels need to be addressed.
I would add that she has her own partner, who gets called 'Daddy' by my DSD (despite my DP requesting that she does not call him Daddy'). I feel her dislike for me is unjust, as I do not try to overstep my place, do not insist on being part of every weekend or event with my DSD, and my DSD really seems to like me.
From a Mum's perspective, how could I reassure you that I am not trying to take your place?
(For context, I am not the other woman. I met my DP long after he had split from his ex (she was already with her partner). I do not have children of my own. My DP waited a year before introducing me to DSD, and we've been together 2.5 years).
Constructive replies appreciated! xx
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Malone98 · 10/04/2020 16:20
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