I have been with my partner for over 5 years, we live together and his boys (both under 10) see me as their Stepmum which is lovely. I am very lucky to generally have a great relationship with them. There have been stressful times but I think with all relationships and children, step or not, there are challenging times! I’m mid 30s and don’t plan to have my own children but feel I have sort of naturally grown into the stepmum role ... I was just wondering if any other stepparents have times of overthinking/worrying about the future? If the worst happened and you split with your partner, we would also loose our step children? I guess because I see us as a family the thought of loosing them really saddens me! Sounds silly I’m sure. Just wondered if other stepparents ever have these concerns?!
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