DH has a difficult relationship with ex. She is a narcissist and a bully. Uses DSS as a pawn when she doesn't get her own way. I used to make an effort with her, but have now stopped as can't 'fake' a friendship with someone who causes my DH so much angst and upset, however I am always polite and civil. She demanded a meeting with us both as DSS is showing signs of anxiety. This meeting however was more of an ambush. She refused to meet in a neutral location but in her home. She basically wants rid of me. She said DSS would see DH 24/7 but it's me that's causing the upset. That I would be better going home to my parents and what would it take for me to 'go home' (we live abroad) That DH is welcome to see DSS as much as he wants but I am no longer involved, that DSS is too anxious to come to our home if I am there. Deep down I think this is partially because I rebuffed her friendship. But mostly it's just because she is angry and bitter. Any advice ?
Married 5 years. DSS is 11.
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What will it take for you to go home?
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Helpordont · 14/11/2019 21:16
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