Just that really... she's had it now for about a year, mum set her up on it. I let partner know straight away I thought it was inappropriate as the age rating is there for a reason as well as all the research into how bad social media is for kids but he said it was fine as her profile was private and he checked regularly.
At first the pics/videos were just of drawings and stuff she did, but they're now becoming increasingly inappropriate. She now has a Tik Tok account and is making a LOT of videos/pictures for both - pouting, sticking tongue out, hair in front of face looking "sexy" - clearly things she has picked up online as her mum doesn't do them and neither do we. She's also becoming massively narcissistic...loads of selfies and lots of "Take a picture of me in this pose" to family members. Partner has said he hates this behaviour, but doesn't seem bothered enough to stop her.
I mentioned it again to my partner last week, just told him I thought he was nuts to let him have these accounts but that it was down to them to make the final decision. Personally, I think my partner is being pretty naive when it comes to this. I work with kids and know the dangers, he just seems to think it won't effect her. My major worry is if something DOES go wrong in a few years, weaning her off it is going to be nigh impossible considering she's had it since a young age.
How far do I go on this? Do I sit down for another chat about it? Or just leave it and hope for the best? I'll be honest that and say that by doing that, it makes me feel I'm failing to safeguard a child who essentially is a daughter to me and that's really hard to swallow.
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9 year old stepdaughter in Instagram account - how far do I go?
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wonderstuff123 · 03/07/2019 09:59
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