So ex and I share 3 DC ages 13 11 and 6. We split in Jan, since then he has been very sporadic seeing DC I offered him to see them every other weekend. He said I made him homeless so he can't have them weekends (I had him removed from the house by the police for domestic abuse ) he know stays with his sister in a 3 bed house .
Since I've met new DP back in April he has got wind of this (many mutal friends ) and has become so so bitter (understandable) however he now quizzes the DC when he sees them about what I'm doing etc, he keeps saying he is coming to the house to take what he bought (my bed frame) dinning table , TV unit , he still accuses me of being an alcoholic and says I starve the kids and that's why I'm so fat (I'm a size 16) bug but not overly and the kids are by far starved . I'm at the end of my tether with it , he is still calling all the shots now . He even called my next door neighbors the other night shouting down the phone saying my new dp is abusing the kids (far from it)
I'm exhausted, I'm off work with anxiety and stress, I can't afford mediation at the moment due to debt I'm just so messed up over this awful said excruciating problem and the kids are suffering .
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Chickenedout · 07/12/2018 10:03
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