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I have been in my 5 year old stepsons life for about 2 years now, my partner and his mother split when he was very young.
I am very frustrated as I really try with him but even after all this time he is so so rude to me. Every time I ask him something even before I am finished speaking he just shouts NOPE - it’s his answer to everything!! If I am offering him food for example he does this & then immediately goes up to his Dad and whispers in his ear that he in fact does want it!! To be fair my partner doesn’t take any off his shit and he is made apologise & when I ask him again he answers properly but this is every time I ask him ANYTHING! He has absolutely no manners at all. At home is mother lets him do whatever he likes when he comes to us his father displines him but there’s only so much we can do as he is with us one day/night a week. Also it was his birthday recently and I bought him a present and I gave him it immediately he shouted DONT WANT IT - DONT LIKE IT! Before he had even touched it - I dont understand what his problem is with me when I do everything I can for him! What more can I do?
His mother is very bitter towards me even though I have never laid eyes on her so Im unsure if maybe she is telling him to be like this with me?
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Stepmumma · 22/11/2018 12:20
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