I have 2 DC, teenage and preteen. DP has 2 toddler age DC.
We're looking at booking a week abroad next year. My DC have never been abroad on holiday so this is a big deal for them.
The thing is DPS DC won't be able to go. They haven't got passports, and DPS ex has issues when we take them for a day out, so would never agree to them going abroad for a week. Anytime she knows we have plans she cancels contact.
DP thinks we should book for the four of us and just go. He says that while it's unfair that his DC will miss out, it's more unfair that his ex could control us and my DC.
I mostly agree with him, but... I don't know. I know she'd never agree to them getting passports, coming with us, and she wouldn't even see it as them missing out on a holiday, because she doesn't think it's important for them to spend time with him/us. But I'm not sure what the right thing to do is in this situation.
Any advice or suggestions appreciated.
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