DPs exW has this really infuriating way of acting like she's doing us favours all the time.
Recent example... It's my birthday at weekend and we advised weeks ago that we'd like to book a meal for the evening and so could we factor that into contact for this week.
For background DP has his DC 3 nights a week but there are no set days, it's just decided at the start of the week by exW which nights she needs. If it's relevant, he does pay CMS.
She's now texting him things like 'seen as I'm doing you a favour so you can take her out at the weekend...'
I'm sorry but when was having your own children, doing someone else a favour? We asked if it was acceptable for us to make plans one night of the weekend and she agreed weeks ago. We are still having DC three nights just asked that one of them not fall on Saturday due to our plans. I don't think this is unreasonable? She makes plans regularly and contact always works around those.
She did the same about holidays this year. Me and DP couldn't afford to take the DC abroad (we took them away here instead) and she said 'dont worry, I'll just do it again for you then'. As if we're choosing not to and she's doing us a favour by doing so...
It really grates me. I know it's petty but it just winds me up sometimes!!
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AIBU to think this isn't a favour?
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Beanstalkk · 16/08/2018 10:16
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