Hello,
I have a 13 year old stepson i have been with his dad for 11 years so stepson has never known life any different.
I adore my stepson he's lovely but lately he's telling lies not little white lies i mean dangerous lies that cause people alot of upset. Every time this has happened he's been caught out and punished ee have explained the seriousness of it over and over again but he is still doing it. My husband is devastated because this is not how he's been raised.
He has always been pretty spoilt which me my husband and his mom are guilty of and its like now he's older and doesn't get as much attention not because he's loved any less but because he's capable of doing more stuff himself so he lies to get attention for example said a teacher hit him and then accused someone of bullying him non of which were true. He lies about his dad who is such an amazing dad and it's heartbreaking at the minute because it's causing alot of trouble.
He's a great kid we are a close family we go out lovely places we go on nice holidays we eat together every night we watch movies together this is why it doesn't make sense because he gets all the love in the world from us and his mom.
His lies are getting worse and one day i fear he's going to get someone into serious trouble. He's always sorry swears it won't happen again but it does. He texts his mom saying stuff like his dads hit him and thats never happened she'll then question me about it and i tell her absolutely not its not true he'll also tell us his moms drunk and can't look after him in the past we've actually gone to her house where she's been completely sober (she's not a drinker) we all now never know what to believe with him we just don't know why he's doing it.
Anyone else been in this situation?
Thank you for taking the time to read any advice would be hugely appreciated
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Lolipop44 · 15/05/2018 11:26
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