I have a dd of my own 14, a ds of my own 12 and 2 step daughters 12 and 14. So difficult ages!
My dsd 12 is so difficult it winds me up and I feel there is nothing I can do about it as she's not my own daughter. She's rude, stroppy, she is vile to my ds she hates anything I cook for her, she won't get up for school and her attendance is so bad her parents now have to attend a meeting with the welfare officer. We have her 50% if the time so this behaviour does effect me and the other children as they see what she gets away with. My dp hates to discipline her incase she decides she doesn't want to live here anymore and I'm forever biting my tongue. But I know it's building up and eventually I'll snap! She's not all bad and she's at a difficult age but she needs telling, getting up for school is a nightmare she just refuses to get up and says she's tired, I have suspected she may use her phone or iPad into the early hours and I have suggested he should take them out of her room at bedtime but he never does! I don't understand this. I had to do this with my dd a few years back when I caught her on her phone at midnight. The difference was though she still went to school was just tired.
The problem when your a step parent is you have no voice! I've known them 5 years and it is so hard not to have an opinion. Oh but dp thinks it's ok to discipline my dcs
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I find my youngest step daughter so difficult
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Bollockstoyou · 12/04/2018 21:48
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