I have been with DH for 4 years now. He has a 9 year old dd from a previous relationship. We have her EOW. Now I have no previous experience of nine year old girls so be gentle with me. This could be completely normal but it seems a bit off to me. She lies. Constantly. From simple 'it wasn't me' type of lies to completely made up ( but harmless) stories 'I rescued a bird and now it lives in a nest I made it outside my bedroom' to fairly malicious lies such as telling her mother we have left her alone in a hotel room while we have gone out for the evening ( never happened) And it's all the time. It's been going on for about the past two years and all I can see is it's getting worse. DH thinks it's just a phase and we should ignore it. But I'm getting worried, two years seems like a very long phase! She can look him square in the eye and flat out lie and he doesn't see it half the time. Am I being overly anxious?? Should we be doing more to address this? I just worry that if she's like this now what will happen when she's a teenager??
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