Hey everyone, I'm finding it really hard ATM to be a step parent. I think I need some professional help but wanted to ask advice from others also. I have been married to my husband for awhile now and I have a son myself and he has two kids a boy 15 whom I get along with great we have a really good relationship, and a daughter who is 8, my husband works away a lot and I have the kids full time all the time, it's been about 6 months now that I have been getting annoyed at everything the daughter does she calls me mum, as her mum up and left them. but she won't listen to me, the rules I set she always breaks every time husband is away we clash as she will dance around when I say it's bed time, or if I say something she will always argue with me over anything, I have tried rewards and charts and she used to listen when husband was home, now not so much either. I have tried to discuss this with husband but he just says she's had it tough and that's why she is like she is. She knows this and minipulates people around her so she is able to act like a baby with baby talk and crying etc, I used to comfort and love her now I just see an act and feel I need to get her out of this behaviour. Our sons even say they hate her ( I know this is normal sibling stuff) but she has no friends at school as she is horribly bossy and pushy and a know it all.
I want the best for her and I don't want her to cry all the time because she had no friends and I try telling her to stop pushing people, I have had her in counselling for last 12 months, as she was eating blu tac and stealing stuff from other kids bags and from family members and also caught her stealing from the shop once, I took her straight down to the police station and made her go give the chocolates back to the shop and apologise. I just can't bond with her anymore when I have a beautiful son who misses out on so much because she is so naughty. How do I stop resenting her???? Please help I don't want to leave my husband because he makes me so happy but she is making me so depressed 😞
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Maddie84 · 11/02/2018 03:17
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