Hi I am a dad who always comes here to look for tips and advice and I really need your help.
I have a beautiful child of my own and have been with someone with 2 kids for the last 2 years, we get on amazing and so do all the kids.
The issue is me, one of her children really grates on me, I am really irrationally irritated by him. He is not naughty (unless he is having one of his moments like all kids do) he likes me a lot, but I can’t seem to get past this, I have tried spending time alone with him but it hasn’t worked.
Her other child I get on with like a house on fire and I can spend all day with him but not her other son.
She hasn’t noticed anything yet but I am worried she will see I am not bonding with him. What should I do? I’m worried it will break us up in the long run.
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Sawyer38 · 21/12/2017 22:27
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