I am really really struggling to know what the right things to do is.
I have 3 ds, 1 lives with his dad (low contact with me) and the other 2 live with me. I split from dad 5 years ago, he was emotionally and verbally abusive. .
I have been with dp for 4 years, he lives with us. He does lots of family stuff with us and has fantastic relationship with youngest.
Very hands on, do lots of fun things together.
Things have been rocky, ds dad has caused us an awful lot of grief over the years. Shit to the kids and threats to me, has been court proceedings.
Dp has said things to the children about their dad. He has told them off when they have been naughty.
I now have a very unhappy middle child who is threatening to live with his dad because he hates dp
Is this normal for kids to hate step parents in this way.
I can't work out if I am being manipulated by a child because he doesn't like being told off and he's having a tantrum. Or am I at risk to loosing ds to his dad.
I've lost sight of everything and my head is very muddled as to what to do for the best.
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Racmactac · 04/12/2017 10:28
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