My DSS starts secondary school tomorrow, me DH and DSS's mother all very proud of him as he is really confident about going, doesn't appear to be nervous at all.
At the weekend me and DSS went to a stationary shop to get him some bits ready for school, on the journey home after a lovely morning I said to DSS 'I'm so proud of you, I always disliked school when I was your age and I'm so pleased you don't feel that way' conversation between us continued about various stuff and he didn't appear to be bothered about my comment.
He went home yesterday and told his mum that he is now nervous about secondary school because of what I said, she rang DH and told him to 'sort me out' I do feel terrible that this has happened, it's had me in tears but it was honestly a harmless comment and was not expecting it to cause trouble.
should I apologise to DSS, his mother? Have a chat with DSS about it or ask DH too? Any ideas?
I feel awful as won't see him now until Thursday night
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takeitback · 05/09/2017 20:24
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