My partner was in a relationship with his ex partner for 10 yrs, she had a 1 yr old baby at the time. They never had any children together and they have been separated for 5 yrs and she is still with the man she ran off with.
My partner still sees this child now 15, he picks her up and goes to Mcdonalds ect. It's just him and her. Sometimes being an observe of this, it looks like he has more time for this child, than his own (who are all over 18).
I'm looking for advice on what to think, how to deal with this situation. I don't want to cause any divisions, I havent come across this situation before. So at a loss on what to think, what's right ect.
My current feelings are, is it whilst he holds onto the past. He says he is over his ex. I know anyone can make a baby it takes a real man to raise one. However, this child does have her father around. Like i said I'm unsure what to think, I haven't come across this before. I get it pickin a step child up when you've got children with your ex but not when you've no connections to your ex. It does make me think is he holding onto his past. I just want some advice. I haven't raised any issue with my partner nor caused any conflict, I've been silent on it.
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Missguided82 · 30/05/2017 11:07
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