We have three (soon to be four) DC together and DH has two DC from his previous marriage. His relationship with his ex was difficult which made contact difficult. For several years we had my DSC the majority of the time but their mum would change or stop contact to suit her. Four years ago it stopped for a year. It was then reinstated and DSC were SO happy to see us but then it stopped again 18 months ago and DH hasn't done anything about that.
I miss my DSC and feel dreadful that they must think we don't love them. As a very minimum, I'd like them to have a sibling relationship with my DC but how can this be possible if DH won't sort things out with regards to contact for himself? I feel like they will all blame us for not knowing one another in the future but I feel powerless to do anything about it. Has anyone been in a similar situation?
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DH has NC with DSC but I want our DC to know their siblings
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AliChampion · 09/03/2017 00:02
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