I'm a mum and a step mum. My ex has also remarried and gained a DSS.
Honestly I don't know what I'd do without his wife, my children's step mum. Not that he is not a great dad but it's a blessing to have her. For example last time we spoke as they dropped of the children; in passing I mentioned that my DS needed dark grey joggers! And for love nor money I could not find them in his size (one of those SOD laws deals)
Today she came through; she text me to say she was shopping in ASDA and she had seen a few pairs; sent me a photo and asked if I still needed them. Of course I said yes! It's silly things like that that mean the most to me. She was thinking about my child's needs.
How could any mother be upset with that?
When my DD gave her a hard time, just because she wanted too, and was being beyond difficult with them both, she stayed and just kept being understanding of DD emotions (and hormones)
I admire her dedication to my children
I'm thankful that she is mindful of my feelings.
It's not always been smooth sailing but we all worked hard at this co-parenting malarkey. And it's working! I'm so proud of that.
So to the step mums out there reading this post; I know it's hard and sometimes a thankless job at times, but your doing great.
There are some mums out there that appreciate all that you do for their kids.
Please take all the positive vibes you can from this and keep smiling.
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Becmum5 · 31/01/2017 23:08
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