I'm in a sticky situation and am currently feeling like a total prick.
DP has 2 kids over 10. Split from DW 10 months ago. I met him through my ex (spilt one year ago) and I've been with DP for 8 months. Already messy I know.
Neither of us have a permanent home away from our parents. I could live with DP in the place I'm renting from a friend short-term but I'm not ready to have the kids every WE. I have said I'm not ready.
But somehow DP moved in and I didn't stop him because it's an amazing lovely idea and that same weekend we spent 2 days with his kids and it confirmed that I, and our relationship, are not ready to take that step. So he moved back out and is furious at me.
I feel terrible for hurting him but I still think it's the right decision and it is too soon. Or am I being an ass?
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user1483560966 · 04/01/2017 20:25
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