I am a "step-parent" my partner has full custody of his little boy (2 years old) and has done for well over a year now. We've worked hard to get him into a routine and both juggle full time jobs to pay for the nursery bill.
His mum plays not much of a part in his life. She see's him every other weekend, for 1 or 2 nights, depending on how she feels. She constantly nags us for extra time with him but she has broken the court order from when it was put into place. We feel as a couple that we shouldn't give her this extra time as we've worked so hard to get him into a routine, that why take him out? And why risk taking him out of nursery for her to turn around a month down the line and say that she can't do it anymore!
We've had many of problems when she has him, asking us how to parent her own son and nearly every other weekend when she has him she will text us to start an argument when she should be spending time with her son.
I do worry a lot for his safety when he is with her, whether that's just me panicking I do not know. Me and my partner now want to try and go for full access but just want some advice on whether other mums think this is a fair thing to do? Not being a mum myself and just being a step parent I'm quite blinded by it all and just want to keep him to myself and out of harms way!!
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user1476386717 · 13/10/2016 21:01
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